What Triggers Cross-Dressing? | Shocking Cross Dresser Interview

As we prepared for the interview, I couldn’t help but stare astonished at his sense of style. 

HeHeels was a delight to gaze upon and emitted energy that instantly lit up the room with serenity and vibes of cinnamon incense.

I was charmed by his glowing melanin and blinding white teeth.

We sat, cross-legged and ready to engage.

I nearly stuttered before gaining the confidence to ask him the following…

What Got You Into Cross Dressing?

I’ve always had an attraction to high heels.

Some of my cousins would wear seven-inch platform stilettos and I would see them as “super shoes” because of their design.

After I purchased my first pair, I’d walk through the grocery store in them.

Well, Is Cross-Dressing An Illness?

There is no illness in cross-dressing.

If you think about the baseline of clothing, there is no gender.

The term “Cross-Dressing” is merely a play-off of mainstream gender expectations.

Free yourself of the prejudice intention it’s rooted from and you won’t see the “cross”, just the simple act of “dressing”.

The issue is that people love to demonize what they don’t understand.

This is why most can’t tap into their inner power to begin with, restrictive thinking.

You wouldn’t call a boy who uses female deodorant a “cross-deodorizer” would you?

There’s just something about the deodorant that the boy likes, there shouldn’t be a line he has to cross.

When it comes to heels, I make it work because I can and it just fits my personality.

What Does Cross-Dressing Indicate About A Man’s Sexuality?

It actually doesn’t indicate anything.

Most of the time, you’ll find gay cross-dressers because we tend to admire and mimic a lot of female-dominated things.

But at the end of the day, fashion is just art.

Look at Harry Styles for example.

He walked around wearing the scarf that stole Christmas and nobody questioned his sexuality.

It’s all about perception really.

Is Cross-Dressing Hard?

The only difficult thing about cross-dressing is conquering your own self-doubt.

I’m my own biggest competitor and I’m working on just existing without distraction.

What Are The Levels Of Cross-Dressing?

This is a good question because not many people know that different types of cross-dressing exist.

For example, you have the mild cross-dresser who typically wears small accessories(like rings or belts) from the women’s section, but not entire outfits.

Or maybe there’s a guy that just likes women’s jackets because they have a particular design that he feels more comfortable wearing.

Then you have the “Full-Fish” cross-dresser that looks 100% passable for female.

As you can see, there’s different levels to cross-dressing that should be considered.

How Did You Learn To Wear Such High Heels?!

Practice, practice, and more practice.

In order to grow in your high heel-wearing journey, you must get out of your comfort zone and try to fail.

Failing is where progress happens, and I’ve dusted my knees off enough to know that each step forward is a world away from where I started.

Is Cross Dressing For Everyone?

I do believe that you should consider how you’re going to be perceived before cross-dressing in public.

If you have extreme anxiety, decide whether you’re going to go public with it or not, and just be you!

I actually made a blog post showing you how to start wearing heels secretly while building your confidence.